I'm going to ask you a question... Would you rather feel stupid for 10 seconds or feel regret for 10,000 seconds? Maybe even more... Obviously you want to say "Stupid for 10 seconds". This is my mindset. I can live with feeling stupid but I CAN'T LIVE WITH REGRET!

Getting to the state of not feeling stupid is tough and can only be done through improving your inner confidence. This is when even when you do fail you feel better because you know you don't care what they thought of you and you can move on... It takes practice but with every fail and triumph you're one more step in the right direction.

So, what I'm trying to say is that as soon as you get that chance, even if it's a minuscule one, you have to take it! Okay, you didn't take it today but you're lucky enough to take it tomorrow. "You miss a 100% of the shots you don't take..." What are you waiting for? If you really wanted to ask her then you'd do it now. When you think to yourself "Hmm, I can do it tomorrow" you've got two choices. 1) You will always put it off, you will always fail and you will never get the girl. Or 2) If you honestly feel that you can do it tomorrow then you can do it today. You'll be doing your future self a massive a favor. Instead of spending that night on how to ask her you'll be spending it thinking what to do for the date!

Getting to that state of just doing it is tough. If you feel you can do it another day then do it today. If you feel you need to be forced to do it, either by letting that girl go or sitting in the corner of a party, then do it today!

You're going in the right direction though! However, getting to where you are now was tough wasn't it? Well the next stage is also just as tough! Don't ever feel it's going to be easy. Getting to that next stage won't just come to you. It takes practice and failure and practice and failure and practice and success but YOU HAVE TO ENJOY THE GRIND!

I love learning Pick Up because I love the journey you go on to learn it. You have to enjoy failing and you have to love the results! If you don't enjoy the whole process of becoming a better person then you're going to have a hard time.

Now, I'm not an expert and this is merely my thought on why you should ask her now. I hope this helps some of you and if you feel that my mindset is wrong then please let me know!

Thanks guys :)