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[–]quinntuplets 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Try talking to groups of girls with no intention of actually hutting on any one of them in particular. Youll definitely become more comfortable over time and without any pressure. Once you got that down itll be easier to go in with a seduction mindset.
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[–]quinntuplets 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
How about you start with "Hey I'm ______". When it comes down to it, the only way you'll be able to conquer your fear of approaching with others around is to just do it. Most people are too worried about their own problems and confidence issues to pay any attention to whats going on around them. When you approach women, you become a man that is better than most other men in our current society. People will be jealous you had the balls to just to go up and say hi, they won't care if you get blown out, even though you probably won't. Even if you do, find the funny side to the "rejection", laugh it off, and bring that positive energy into your next interaction.
[–]DaygameCoach 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You are too worried about what other people think. They usually don't notice or care who you are talking to...and the better you get at game, the better it looks from the outside anyway...like you already knew the women instead of t being a cold approach. Push yourself...approach more women...until you get more used to it. Work your way up to larger sets and mixed sets. Sets greater than 2 can be easier than 2 sets (you can tell me why, OP), but 2 sets aren't difficult either.
People find night game easier than daygame? news to me.
Deal with your self limiting beliefs. If you think you can't do something, you cant. So, if you think you can't do areas that are greater than low volume, you can't. If you think something is difficult for you, it is. If you think you have a mental block, you do. If you think you can't open 2 or 3 girl in a group, you can;t.
"Hate" is always a red flag for me, btw. It's a strong word. Stop hating. :)
-C Daygamer.net
[–]Woujo 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Don't think of it as "approaching." That sounds so creepy and ominous. Just think of it as talking to people. There is no reason to not talk to people. 80% of girls you talk to will never be interested in you, but you can still talk to them.
[–]TissueReligion 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So many upvotes for this!
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