Asian, Redhead, Indian, etc.: My advice to guys that don't fit American society's ideal image of the conventionally attractive man.

masterplan2020 · 2016-01-13T00:37:39+00:00

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BandungConference · 2016-01-11T09:35:19+00:00

As a white guy, how many times has being Asian affected your dating life? As a white guy, how has your odds of dating interracially as an Asian man differed from before and after you applied your advice? Does this advice actually have any basis in reality (field reports/firsthand experience) or is it completely fabricated and untested advice for Asian men by someone who has no idea what dating as an Asian guy is?

Seriously, this isn't helping any Asian guys. You basically listed either generic advice applicable to everyone (lift, style, open your dating pool more, don't just troll in bars/clubs, avoid shallow women) or is either unhelpful/detrimental to Asian men. Plus a lot of your comments show you don't know jackshit about what cities are good for asian dating, considering every single one you named is good for asian guys.

Other statements you've made like this one last week needing help to make friends after college make me feel like you don't know what you're talking about and probably shouldn't be giving advice. Also, TRP, really?

daddysuggs · 2016-01-11T04:07:47+00:00

I've always felt that Indian guys (Americanized/Westernized) are a little bit better integrated into American society than Asian guys(which tend to be a bit more isolated).

Also, the perception is changing. You see more Asian and Indian people in media, people will change their minds. I.e. Master of None, Mindy Project, and the Indian guy from Big Bang Theory.

tragichero24 · 2016-01-11T05:02:53+00:00

Have you found a certain "type" of minority (whether asian or indian or whatever) do better in dating from other "types" from the same minority when it comes do dating outside their race?

I ask because while I'm asian, I'm 6ft, can grow a beard and go to the gym, dress well and have groomed haircut and have a deep voice so I don't fit the stereotype. I also know girls notice me cause of my body language. But I'm also in between outgoing and quiet. This prevents me from trying since I am not typically the center of attention kind of person

palmerd21 · 2016-01-11T06:28:42+00:00

Great post. I look like this - http://imgur.com/OI3K58e and it's been a long time coming. Recently shaved my head, got new shoes and the next step is the glasses. Slowly transitioning from nerd to normal.

Title	Asian, Redhead, Indian, etc.: My advice to guys that don't fit American society's ideal image of the conventionally attractive man.
Author	mintberrycrunch111
Upvotes	3
Comments	16
Date	January 11, 2016 3:36 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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