" Most attractive people are lonely " True? And about loneliness in general?

ZakieChan · 2011-06-10T05:19:11+00:00

There is evidence that very attractive girls have surprisingly low self esteem. Simply because they think that people only care about their looks, and not about them as a person.

Even anecdotally, this seems very true. One of the prettiest girls I know is EXTREMELY insecure. So insecure that it makes her un-dateable (at least for me).

I know that self esteem and loneliness aren't the same thing, but I still thought it was relevant.

2011-06-10T01:06:14+00:00

most people are at least somewhat lonely. especially guys.

nothing feels better than socializing. go out of your way to do it. a relationship with a girl you like also feels incredible. approach and take action.

neoncp · 2011-06-10T00:26:11+00:00

a gross generalization followed by an inane question

Nexism · 2011-06-10T01:08:01+00:00

This is a complex philosophical question I've dwelled on for many years, and unfortunately I'm unable to find any relevant discussions on it.

Just so we're talking about the same thing.

When people become more attractive , it becomes difficult to find genuine people as your are more often approached by people in general.

This can also be graphed, by (a+b)/x, as you assume there is 1 genuine person in a room, suppose that genuine person were to approach you (or you approach them), as you become more attractive more ingenuine people approach you hence distorting the ratio.

This doesn't take any account game etc, solely aesthetic attraction.

I don't see how this would apply to men though, as men choose who they approach.

dookielumps · 2011-06-12T05:22:52+00:00

It seems to me that attractive women especially have no choice, their looks will always have men flocking to them no matter what.

Title	" Most attractive people are lonely " True? And about loneliness in general?
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Date	June 10, 2011 12:15 AM UTC (15 years ago)
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