So Thursday was another day of approaching and i was feeling confident, I went up to girl sitting by herself and instead of the usual, "hi thought, I'd come by and sit with you" I asked her a skyrim related question with confidence (out off all the thing..skyrim) hahaha. She was confused but I got a pretty decent out of that approach. So remember, its not what you say, its how you say it. so be confident in your words.