I dont get it ... It sorta felt good ..

ThrowawayPUA · 2014-05-03T05:49:48+00:00

Yesterday the 9th girl rejected me

Let us know what the 90th one says.

juicyjellyfish · 2014-05-03T05:38:37+00:00

Coming from someone who is the same (no relationship, 21, never had sex) you kinda gotta try different angles. Sounds to me you are almost happy you asked her out, its a bold move and you should feel happy. The rejection part isn't what you enjoy, its making a move and feeling good about it no matter the outcome.

It's not a bad thing except for one thing, if you expect rejection you will get rejected. You unintentionally set yourself up. If you sound confident and say "Hey, how bout we go for a coffee sometime?" she will feel safe (right word?). If you expect to be rejected you will sound more like "Hey..do you like wanna go out or something...you know..." without even realizing.

Could be the difference between being confident and feeling confident. Like a job interview go in like you have the job, you make them want you.

rangamatchstick · 2014-05-03T07:18:54+00:00

PPFFFFTT only 9? Thats nothing, its going to be a while before you practise enough for them to say yes but before you get to that, you wont care if you get rejected =). BTW dont wait for them to say no, if you think she will, slow down think about were the interaction is at, read her body language and think about what you could do to fix it.

PowerSeductionWar · 2014-05-03T14:39:27+00:00

You need to change your thought patterns.. If you expect to fail you won't try your best and that leads you to failing.

If you expect to win you will put in the effort needed to get your expected outcome.

I want you to learn game from RSD. They'll give you the right paradigms to succeed in general, not just with women.

yourstupidhands · 2014-05-03T07:24:42+00:00

Either stop asking and just take what you want, or lower your standards.

DrewCruise · 2014-05-03T08:06:12+00:00

Yes, you have hit new ground. Be proud that you are no longer phased by rejection. That is a very powerful thing. Also, even though you don't try being a PUA, dating in general is very paradoxical. Because you want a relationship, you are not going to get it. Women are attracted to men who are either already in a relationship or to guys who don't give a F about a relationship.

Start rejecting them by screening and qualifying and you'll be surprised by how they will start to want you more.

simplisticallysimple · 2014-05-03T19:33:35+00:00

You sound like you're okay/satisfied with rejection, so you're resting on your laurels somewhat now. Don't ever let this be a habit.

wirelezz · 2014-05-03T19:46:48+00:00

Rejection is a simple misfortune that accumulates to become a huge satisfaction when you succeed.

Nater420retaN · 2014-05-03T05:46:37+00:00

Thats life

demonhunt140 · 2014-05-03T15:00:30+00:00

what did she reject you? having sex? being your girlfriend? plucking her pubes?

canon12 · 2014-05-04T12:16:35+00:00

I think it's time to start studying closer at the types of girls you are being rejected by. Also you might consider changing the level of expectations. I don't know what you call rejection. When are you rejected? When you ask for a date? First date? What are you asking that for that they reject? How soon after you date a girl are you being rejected? Is your approach setting yourself up for rejection?

Title	I dont get it ... It sorta felt good ..
Author	rya11111
Upvotes	8
Comments	19
Date	May 3, 2014 5:02 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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