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Just to say thank you for making me have some of the best sex... again.

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September 22, 2012

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Title	Just to say thank you for making me have some of the best sex... again.
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	3
Comments	19
Date	September 22, 2012 3:32 AM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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Tl;dr: Oh dude, I don't actually know but I can kinda describe how I felt throughout. If you'd like to know...keep reading.

On the night that he and I met I was out with friends. It had been quite a while since I had sex but due to my very conservative upbringing I tried my best to hide it and ignore it until I found someone I'd want to be in a relationship with. You know, cos otherwise I'd be a used slut.

To put things into perspective I was indeed 20 and I'm still at 21 pretty naive/ New to everything. I was starting university and had a new found freedom that I was still too scared to make use of (kinda still am sometimes). I was pretty outgoing and flirty but that was usually where my nights out with my friends ended.

So anyway, I spot him, eye him up and down, maybe it was his confident walk and charming welcoming smile that caught my attention. He sees me, looks away and waits to finish his drink. All my friends were dancing and me being that "i don't give 3 fucks about dancing" type of girl, I stayed put at the table, people watching and playing with my phone. So yah... I might have been an easy target. He walks up to me, looks at me as if to say "may I sit down?" I nod and he sits. I remember this cos my heart was racing and... I'm not gonna lie I was horny as fuck. When I get too frustrated i usually turn into this sharp tongued moody bitch. So he's just chilling, sat really close to me not saying a word. So I have to ask wtf. And then he really politely introduces himself. I found it funny. We got talking... Fuck knows about what exactly, all I know is that I seemed to steer the conversation towards sex and I think that tipped him off about my state of frustration. I mean, I obviously wanted him to know but god forbid I do it more directly.

So, nevermind, I controlled myself and we arranged to meet for coffee the day after.

The next day we meet up and being out in the bright during the day, I felt really self concious which.... made me hornier. And I think I must have looked it cos the conversation...I don't remember. I just remember him looking at me with a smile on his face making me tell him how I feel. After a bit of pretending that I didn't understand, I gave in. He says "cmon" and gets up to go. I follow. (Fun trivia: i'd left a wet patch on the chair I was sitting, not even joking. I turned bright hot red, looked at the chair, looked at him, he looked at the chair and looked back at me, he tried to hold back some laughter while biting his lip and then hurried me out. It was fun)

He flags down a taxi, and THAT'S when it hit me. I stand back and he's holding the taxi door open. He says "take your time". And I did. I must have been standing there a good couple of minutes before getting in while saying "dont fucking murder me please. Just a movie right?" (Haha) We get to his, we take our shoes off (we're in Europe) and, feeling slightly more vulnerable, I say I don't want sex. Which was BULLSHIT. And he knew it and I knew it. I just couldn't admit it. He says ok and tells me I can either wait for him in the lounge or I can come with him in his bedroom to help pick a movie.

Next thing I know, I'm straddling him on his bed. I still don't let him kiss me yet cos I'm an idiot. I mean, I was on top of him. It was ridiculous. Fast forward..we kiss we fuck. And I felt GOOD. I didn't feel like a slut, he didn't get weird after, we talked and fucked and talked. I told him that I felt good and he said.. "well yeah of course you wanted it. It was your decision. Did you feel pressured at any point" and the truth was I didn't. He LET me initiate. EVERYTHING he did and said let me (from my perspective) control the outcome of the situation. No tricks and shit. Then it got me thinking ...like, hey! Isn't this reverse psychology? To what he responded with a "oh I'm sorry did you not want sex?" Very ridiculously...cos we were both still naked. So we talked and talked about the psychological aspect of it...the subjectivity of what's right and wrong...and I dunno. It just made a lot of sense. All This probably doesn't, but hey. I try.

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