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It’s how you make her FEEL

QuiteTheBrianD · 2019-09-28T04:43:46+00:00

Looks to matter. But to an extent (and not a big one). Attraction is how you make the girl FEEL when she's with you. Butterflies, nervousness, comfort,...

QuiteTheBrianD

September 28, 2019

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Title	It’s how you make her FEEL
Author	QuiteTheBrianD
Upvotes	39
Comments	4
Date	September 28, 2019 4:43 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/dabkyv/its_how_you_make_her_feel/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/its-how-you-make-her-feel.1298776 https://theredarchive.com/post/1298776

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[–]nonsass 6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link

There's some truth i'd say

Butterflies, nervousness, comfort, getting turned on, etc..

A good looking guy ticks 3 of them boxes (butterflies, nervouseness, turned on) by his sheer existence. That's why good looking guys need to just not be super weird (abilily to create comfort) and they get the girl

(you tend to need 'attraction', 'comfort' and 'seduction' to get the lay)

If you're not her physical type at all, you can tick some boxes, but you'll likely never get her 'turned on'/sexually attracted - Same as if an ugly girl tried to turn you on. Generally just wouldn't happen

But before people freak out or think i'm saying 'don't try if you don't look like Tom Welling', it's important to realise that personal taste can vary. So Go out and approach. Find the 'yes girls'. I know hot girls who think classically somewhat 'unattractive' men/actors etc are handsome. That phenomenon explains most 'miss-matched' couples (excluding sugar daddy game etc). Tyler got laid with some hot girls because he approached so many (5 nights per week for hours and hours!) that he was bound to find hot girls who thought he was good looking, who liked skinny, ginger white boys. They're out there! It wasn't really his 'game' as such (that's why he still got rejected a tonne). Watch enough infields and you'll see guys get laid with girls who thought they look good, and when they get rejected hard and fast, they can never turn it around and 'convince' her to be attracted and get the lay

[–]magnetradio 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

But before people freak out, it's important to realise that taste can vary. I know hot girls who think classically somewhat 'unattractive' men/actors etc are handsome. That phenomenon explains most 'miss-matched' couples (excluding sugar daddy game etc).

There's an actor by the name of Benedict Cumberbatch (he played as Dr. Strange in those Marvel movies) who women find attractive. People call his female groupies "CumberBitches". If a guy looked like him, he would probably struggle to get women because he would be stuck on his looks, but women find this guy sexy. I even saw a YouTuber who said he was sexy.

Paris Hilton is traditionally attractive. I see that she's attractive, but I'm not into her. There's an actress by the name of Aubrey Plaza (look her up) who's kinda weird, but I would take her over Paris Hilton.

When a man focuses on improving himself and building his inner confidence, women will start to find him sexier. This is another reason why young women find older men attractive. These older men have made accomplishments throughout their lives and it makes them confident. It's not always that older men have a lot of money.

[–]zacattack62 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]QuiteTheBrianD 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link