I saw these two gorgeous foreign girls having a drink, so I went up and shattered the fucking shit out of my AA, I usually get a little nervous on my first approach of the day, I did well doing it this time. They had some designer sunglasses and were genuinely those hot girls most guys can't even talk to outside of "excuse me, you two are very pretty, can I please have your number? nervous giggle" and get blown out and laughed at.
So I joined their conversation and got their names, I gave them mine, I said their names were unique and let's call her M, she told me they were foreigners from Europe. M had an accent, at first my target was the other girl, but M was being more receptive so I switched over and started rapport building with her. I think my stupid level of confidence going in got me to the hook point. I feel like despite her being a little more receptive, the other girl was keeping watch and was participating still. I included her since they were friends and I didn't want to get blown out, though.
I had a nice conversation with lots of banter, and positive reactions for about 15 minutes -- I'm proud of myself for hooking them that long -- which only increased my confidence in talking to these really hot foreign girls. When they found out I was two years younger they told me I was too young for them, and tried to disqualify me, I could have reacted better to this, I just told them I was turning 20 soon and tried to qualify myself, rather than sit back and go "Eh, your loss".
I incorporated a lot of disqualification in this and kept telling them you guys are disappointing me when I got shot down for compliance requests (taking off sunglasses, getting up and dancing). I think I balanced banter and connection build fairly well, but since it was my first approach I didn't really have the balls to close anything. My attempt to close anything at the end was shot down.
M had a little attraction for me, but the switch was a little awry and turned off near the end when they left for their hair appt. She was touching her hair and complying in telling me about herself. They periodically laughed at each other though, which isn't a great thing, I was so high on confidence I just kept disqualifying them when they did it and kept it hooked.
I didn't get a number, but I'm extremely proud in the balls I had to hook a set of two girls that high quality for 15 minutes and not stumble once. These are the kind of girls I want from this though, not those girls that are cute and chase me. I'm usually not attracted enough to take them on a great date or fuck them. They were juniors in college and each 21/22.
To take away from this:
- Hot girls don't want to be put on a pedestal, if you can put them down and be playful with them, they will enjoy talking to you.
- I did a great job of sitting back and not trying to impress them at all, but instead disqualifying the shit out of them since they perceived themselves so high above me.
- I could have been more aggressive and ended the interaction sooner, and got M's number, instead of letting them end it and have me chase M for seeing her again
- A few little examples of banter:
Why don't you two take off your sunglasses? I want to see your eyes / No, I am hung over from last night; No, I have pink eye (laugh at each other) / I think you're lying to me / No, I do! / You're disappointing me (I touched her earlier in the conversation for something, I can't remember), so if I did this (touched near my eye), you just gave me pink eye! / Yeah, I did! Don't worry it goes away by itself! (she laughs with me this time, as a smile and show a little bit of my teeth)
After they talk about turning 30 and being old So you two don't want to be old? / No, then we lose all of our beauty! / So I'm more beautiful than you two? / (they laugh) You aren't beautiful / Then what am I, ugly?! / No you aren't ugly! Boys aren't beautiful though
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