TL;DR Got rejected, used momentum and number closed, probably an easy kiss/fuck

Went in where this girl was that I had a fling with, bad idea already beginning - I told her in so many words "let's talk again" and get rejected by her friend and her at the same time with the shitty excuse that she's talking to someone else and her friend butting in with this is awkward. I stayed confident as fuck with them through the end of it all, and I'm genuinely proud of myself there. I was congruent with my intentions throughout the interaction even though they were trying to shut me down.

I walk outside, open a pretty girl, and then get a date and number right away, pretty much where this girl can see me. In fact I'm certain she saw me because the girl I opened went up to them.

Let rejection motivate you, it's literally just because you came off wrong, not because they don't like you! This girl really was grinding my emotions for awhile, and I'm glad I'm ready to accept things finally, just needed to reappraise things, feel great.

And I feel like with girls you really like, there are always four stages in "grieving" your loss of them, no matter how good you are, you will always have girls who click more than many others:

  • Denial
  • Anger
  • Depression
  • Negotiating
  • Acceptance

For me I've noticed this process is about a month to 45 days for every girl this happens with, and I've had that happen with 3 or 4.