I'm always left clueless when a female brings up other guys attempts to spit game. I myself, tend to play a pretty slow game, not rushing into anything. I'm pretty sure this helps, because girls will eventually open up to me as I don't rush into the interactions cock first...so to speak. (Is there a better mindset I should have when it comes to this? I'm open to different opinions. It's worked for me so far.)

I've had co workers (females) tell me about how they make fun of other coworkers (male) who try and spit game at them...and it turns out it's a big inside joke and they totally rip on the guy. I didn't want to talk bad against anyone, so I bit my lip.

I have a friend in NYC and she always tells me about how other guys (some I know) hit on her and how she rejects them. Usually it's described to me as if the dude did it in a 'creepy' way, from her perspective. She's probably right, but what is creepiness anyway? Not hiding your intention of trying to bed the girl?

I often spit good game without realizing it. Ex.) I was at a bar, but it was packed, with everyone trying to get to the bartender for drinks. There was a loose 'line' to get ahead, and I let this cute Asian chick in front of as I said "I'll let you cut if you get a coke for me." She smiled, agreed, and as she waited in line, got hit on by some drunk dude, and she wasn't too pleased with it. She handed me the coke and next thing I know she and I and talking and I'm making her laugh. Then she says something like "OMG did you see that guy hit on me? So disgusting." I played it off as if I missed it and didn't see what she was talking about.

I can think of a few more...but this topic always always has a way of surfacing, and I don't want to talk trash to anybody, as that only makes me look bad in the end (imo). So I ask you seddit, how would you handle this situation, especially if you were trying to hook up with the girl who mentions it? I don't want to make fun of some other guys game only to try and drop some line soon afterwards. I feel that's a bad idea as she may be 'hyper aware' at that point. Note that this usually comes up when a girl has given me a few IOI's if that helps clarify the placement when this usually comes up.