what do you 'qualify' girls with?

recyclablebanthas · 2017-12-03T19:01:14+00:00

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I read that true 'game' is about not showing your interest/intent until she has first.

This is a fear-based mindset. Not being able to show intent or interest until she has, is basically encoding fear of rejection into your whole approach.

Sometimes she'll show intent or interest first. But it's perfectly damn fine if you do, too.

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And you also need to wait for her to qualify herself before you actually show your interest back

False. One wonders where you're getting this from.

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So you open a girl. You're being cool. You can tell that she is maybe into you. You need to qualify her now.

Look, you're choosing to follow a way of doing this that is so overcomplicated.

You don't need to be "cool" and aloof.
Just interact like a person. Listen to people. Like really listen. Information is power.
She might be into you? There is no reason to be wondering. This is where the opening stages of escalation actually come in. Testing space bubbles, safe & brief non-sexual touches like high fives and forearm touches, have a way of leading to responses that are pretty clear, as to whether the girl is interested.
Qualify her? Like get her to "prove" herself? This is a needless bit of manipulation that is a waste of time. Why spend time trying to actively create an interaction that's putting the girl off balance?
The only "qualification" that really needs to happen is in your head. As you're having a conversation with this girl, you're getting to what makes her tick and you're paying attention to whether these things are attractive to you or not.

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.... if you are only after a one-night-stand and the only thing that you care about is that she is hot, do you just make up some questions to make her think that you like her for reasons other than her hotness?

The problem here is that you're apparently focused on theory and not getting in there with escalation.

You will have a very fucking clear idea of whether the girl does it for you, if you're escalating.

Messisfoot · 2017-12-03T19:25:42+00:00

What are you going for here? Are you looking for a wife or just trying to bang?

whoyou247fx · 2017-12-04T00:29:23+00:00

How about just being yourself!? GAME?? Make that sound like she's a peice of meat PLEASE!!! what an insult to the lady who does respect herself enough to know that if your not going to be mature or honest about your intentions then you are just playing games and playing with girls emotions can do more damage than you relise too.. No one wants to get hurt be a gentleman!

Title	what do you 'qualify' girls with?
Author	redinkinc
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Date	December 3, 2017 5:54 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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