How do I seduce my own boyfriend?

barbecue_ · 2019-08-12T16:26:32+00:00

(I intruded your post history) He spends 1.5 hours in the bathroom, he doesn’t want to have sex with you for any valid reasons. It seems really off. Does he make it evident that he is attracted to you? That you are beautiful?

KrAzyDrummer · 2019-08-12T18:55:07+00:00

I also intruded your post history. You've spent the last week asking reddit what's going on with your boyfriend. Have you asked your boyfriend? Maybe it's time to have an open conversation about what's going on. Not meeting your needs is important, but if you were having sex before and now it's stopped, it's likely because something happened to spark that change. There may be something else going on in his life that's killing his sex drive.

Don't approach it like "why aren't you finding me attractive". That's accusatory and won't help anyone. Ask what's going on with him, and slowly work into the conversation your dissatisfaction and sexual desires.

Also don't know what the deal with toilet time is, but I have a hunch and I seriously hope for his sake I'm wrong.

But yeah, just sit down and have an open and honest conversation. This is less a seduction issue than a communication one, IMO.

MustKnowTruth · 2019-10-21T05:54:53+00:00

Wow... That part about him "storing it all in his head and bringing it up 3 months later and calls you a liar" This is a giant red flag from my point of view (48M)... First of all, people who fight like that - calling you a liar, not adult enough to discuss an issue while it is fresh, packing things away in his head and weaponize them for later use... These kind of people are very difficult to live with )I'm sure I'm not telling you anything). But most importantly, those characteristics are actually symptoms of a person who has never fully matured and / or has had rather serious problems during their childhood. Obviously, this cannot be 100% accurate considering I've only read a few paragraphs, but if it sounds familiar there's a pretty good chance your dealing with a person who is having problems. If you're not heavily invested, breaking it off sooner rather than later, might be the best plan.

BubblegumChapstick · 2019-08-13T03:01:54+00:00

I come into Reddit because 1. I just discovered it, and 2. I feel safe here. Even though I'm 36 I haven't had very many relationships in my life. 2 actually, this will be my 3rd. So I'm actually pretty inexperienced when it comes to things like this. I legitimately don't know if I'm doing something wrong. I am so big on open communication in all aspects of my life. I feel like you'll never be able to fix anything if you don't know what the actual problem is. But he's so different, he stores things on his head and will pull them out 3 months later and say I'm a liar.

deduniverse · 2019-08-14T22:51:04+00:00

Been waiting to hear back

Title	How do I seduce my own boyfriend?
Author	BubblegumChapstick
Upvotes	3
Comments	13
Date	August 12, 2019 4:23 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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