Hi seddit,

I have started to develop a rejection anxiety. I think its the result of getting rejected again and again, so I kinda lost my motivation for dating. A "relationship" usually goes as follows - I match a girl on tinder, we start to use snapchat, she likes me, me meet, and then I get the "I think you are a nice guy but.... "-text. I don't think dating is fun anymore because I simply just anticipate that Im going to get dumbed. This has resulted in me not texting girls after dates because my logic goes "she doesn't text me first, so I guess she wasn't interested". I have also changed my "snapchat game" so I usually send a lot pictures where I look ugly, just in case girls shouldn't get a vision of me being more handsome than I am in real life. People always say that you get used to getting rejected and it makes you stronger, but in my case it has turned me into a mess. Do you guys have any tips?