A question on how to be seductive as a woman...

bramblefish · 2020-07-09T21:41:14+00:00

Well, interesting question. Be open, honest, sincere (oops, how many different ways to say the same thing); be interesting- and by that I don’t mean have stories about climbing great mountains, or great intellectual jousts (those are fine if true), but have insights into what makes you special.

If you don’t know, then that is an hole different beast. What makes you laugh, cringe, hope, reflect fondly - start there. Those can be building blocks of interest, just know when to pull the rip cord and change directions.

It is nice to spend time learning about him, but also sharing about you. Strong buildings are built on small bricks. So are strong relationships, they are built on the thousand details you both learn about each other.

Fascinations are built on the the facts one person learns about another - but that often does not lead to a deep relationship.

Deep relationships can be short, friendships, or long live affairs.

Oh, and smile, with beautiful friendly eyes. It never hurts.

2020-07-10T19:42:33+00:00

Guys have the same problem and it's called neediness. Neediness comes from a strong desire and attachment to an ideal or a feeling. Try to ask ur self why you want what you want and then when u get an answer ask ur self again why and then again ask why until u get to the root cause of the attachment.

Queen-of-meme · 2020-07-12T06:30:14+00:00

Hello Fellow Woman!

I have always been seductive with my entire being. And I'm also in my 30s so I have had a lot of time for self reflections why this is.

The answer is that I'm not trying to impress anyone. I already know I'm a good girl and that I have a good personality and is attractive inside out. So instead. I show my comfortable - home in the couch side. Who am I when I'm home and comfy? Who am I with the people I love? Friends family? I can just be. So I give guys that person too. And that person is very social, makes jokes, curious on others, interested in arts, psychology, photography, science, pets, love the nature. Learning about others, Etc etc. I just treat men like they're any random human who I am connecting with because it's rewarding no matter what it will lead to.

"I don't focus on "How do I look do he think I'm weird do he think I'm boring, was this dress the right choice?" I have no egocentric focus, when I meet someone they have 100% of my attention.

I believe my first contact with a man is on acquaintance level. We start chit chatting a bit. Then I notice he's very nice to talk to. And it becomes more a friendly level. And then if I feel a deeper connection. It starts to feel like more then friends level. And I just take it very easy. No rush. No pressure. No theater acts. I just show him who I am backstage. That's the girl he will wanna date.

GrandMasterB19 · 2020-07-11T00:42:33+00:00

I think it's pretty normal to clam up around people you really like, you definitely aren't alone there because I do it too. Another trend I've noticed here is that women spend an enormous amount of time trying to attract men by emulating what they would find attractive in a man, while men do the respective opposite. I've noticed that what we have as a result is women trying raise their attractiveness through their careers, finances, and independence, while men are trying to raise their attractiveness through their looks, fashion, and sex appeal.

What I find most attractive in a woman is when she's centered in her feminine energy. I know this is abstract so bear with me. The most attractive women I've ever known, they all oozed this sweet feminine essence. It made their presence as a feminine being intoxicating to me, even if they weren't exactly my type looks-wise. Spending time around them made me feel like a man and it was exciting. Think of it like magnetic poles, feminine attracts masculine like a magnet.

Women like this are getting harder to come by because of this agenda to assimilate the genders, so men are becoming more feminized and women are becoming more masculinized. So I think the more you are able to embrace you femininity, your feminine essence, your womanhood, the more men you will attract in return.

Outside of maximizing your femininity, I'd say depth and intelligence go a long way with me. When I see that a woman is learning new things, reading, pursuing passion projects, it's highly attractive. Or if she's able to offer deep and stimulating conversation. So many girls spend all their free time on social media or partying, so this is a good way to set yourself apart if you want to meet more intellectually driven men. I'm highly educated and find it a struggle to connect with girls that are really "basic." Even just having some hobbies makes me feel like a girl has more to offer.

A few years ago I also got big into health and wellness, so when I see a woman that values her health, it's insanely attractive. When I see that a woman is physically fit it signals to me that she will understand healthy dieting so we can cook together, we can exercise together, and sex will probably be infinitely better. Building that connection with your body makes you infinitely more seductive in the ways that you move and express yourself.

And you shouldn't be afraid to have a little sex appeal. And I don't mean gratuitous nudity or sexualized clothing, I mean a sensual sex appeal to your vibe and self-expression. If I don't think a girl will be receptive to me creating sexual tension with her, I really won't make a move. These days it's not really worth it unless the woman gives me some kind of signal that she's at least curious about me romantically or sexually.

kristythompson86 · 2020-07-11T20:55:49+00:00

I'm apparently very seductive so my partner says, I'm a people person and love meeting all walks of life. I guess it's about confidence and the way you carry yourself

Title	A question on how to be seductive as a woman...
Author	swimming_song_savour
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Date	July 9, 2020 9:10 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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