I carried out a Tinder experiement the other week. I set up an account with random pics of a guy - tall, well built, pretty good looking. Then I went matching all the hot girls in my area.

I got lots of responses (so many more than I do myself). I just copied the same messages to most girls and pretended I was on a work placement, in town for a few months as I live abroad, have a nice job etc.

Then I would ask out most of them for a drink - most said yes.

Then I would deploy my line: "I need to let you know something first. I have a girlfriend at home so if that is a problem I totally understand and you should unmatch me".

The response was really amazing - two thirds of girls did not have a problem with it. Some that did have a problem still kept talking to me. What I found incredible is that most said something 'it's a short term thing for me so if it's not a problem for you then it's not for me".

One girl who was really angry and said she would never sleep with someone who had a girlfriend messaged back the day after saying "I should have told her before you made me want my cock and now I want it badly" and is happy to meet up.

Pretty amazing stuff - and a real insight into how women actually think and act.