19 years old, male, still a virgin and sexually frustrated. I need some advice?

edbenz · 2013-12-09T07:55:49+00:00

Dude you should really read Models by Mark Manson. In that book he will cover nearly all of the issues you raised in this post. Basically, would you want anything to do with that girl that hung up on you? No. She's judgmental and unconfident.

A lot of times women will find it attractive if you don't give a fuck about being a virgin. I didn't lose my virginity until I was 21, and I'm a pretty good looking and socially adept guy, and I know plenty of people like this (though I grew up in possibly the most mormon city in the world...kinda hard to get laid).

Keep being an honest, stand up guy, and the girls that are confident in themselves will be equally as happy having sex with a virgin as a guy who's fucked a few girls. It's the unconfident girls who feel like they need to project the fake confidence you've seen that girl display.

bl1y · 2013-12-09T13:27:22+00:00

The vast majority of women do not give two shits if you're a virgin. They'll only think you'll be clingy if you're already acting clingy. Just get out there and do whatever it is you were doing when you had girls interested in you before.

Most of the "perfect 10s" have to take off all of their makeup to get an accurate weight measurement at the doctor's office and generally have self-entitled attitudes anyways.

Try being less of a judgmental prick. You'll get further in life. Most the "perfect 10s" I've met have been incredibly nice.

ItWasIraqLobster · 2013-12-09T11:48:29+00:00

/r/askseddit

Use that next time.

Title	19 years old, male, still a virgin and sexually frustrated. I need some advice?
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Date	December 9, 2013 7:20 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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