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Feels hopeless and desperate. The only white girls I matched with on Tinder keep unmatching me shortly after I attempt to send them message.

tannedandathletic

November 2, 2016

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Title	Feels hopeless and desperate. The only white girls I matched with on Tinder keep unmatching me shortly after I attempt to send them message.
Author	tannedandathletic
Upvotes	1
Comments	9
Date	November 2, 2016 5:53 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/5arek6/feels_hopeless_and_desperate_the_only_white_girls/
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[–]quinntuplets 4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

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[–]TheXXL 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

He´s right though. But if you want to keep on torturing yourself with something so superficial like online dating, go ahead. Remember that you as a man are in extremely low demand, whatsoever. Women have the opportunity to pick out the best they can find, they have all the power, and they need to be choosy, just because online, men suddenly have the balls to throw out overly sexual comments, which they in real life would never do, not even approach the girl. This makes girls think they are in higher demand, higher value than they ever would be in real life, that´s why they simply don´t reply or just unmatch you when you don´t live up to their extremeley high standards.

So, now that this is said, you can supply people here with some examples of your texts, i am sure they are the main problem why you fail, after passing the overall looks test. I bet you still are too overly sexual, or just vulgar, like "wanna fuck?", which doesn´t work well online, since hundred of men do this every day to every girl there.

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[–]TheXXL 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Never as vulgar as that.

That is something.

But I already said that it was when I started out and I failed.

That is good, since it doesn´t work so well in text form.

Then nowadays I am more casual, like "You look like trouble", "How's it going in the island", "Partying hard last night" etc.

This sounds like low invest openers, and i cannot see anything wrong with it, except that the "you look like trouble" opener is worn out, and i am sure that most women read this 5 times a day.

And also I don't get match often. Keep in mind that they don't know the fact that I am 5'6"

I hear often that height is a big factor in online dating, i cannot really say someting about it, since i pursued online dating only extremely low energy (only one crappy picture, not really writing much and overall not looking into it very often, mostly when i am aon the toilet at work) and have had maybe 3 dates in 5 years doing it, and i am about 186cm tall.

So, the main problem i think with online dating, apart from the sheer mass of guys to choose from, is that you need very nice pictures to even get considered matching. That is because a woman only has your picture to build this little story in her mind that makes her want to get to know you.

Like i say, this is as much as i can tell you, since online dating was always uninteresting to me, since i am more into real life interactions, they yield so much more success and fun than stupidly writing with a girl for weeks only for her to ghost on me, or never finding the time to even meet, and when we meet, finding our she is a terrible person or doesn´t look like on her pictures... nah, i´ll pass on that.

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