What are your favorite things to do/say/talk about to build comfort or rapport in club game?

NewAndExistingUser · 2016-05-05T08:16:47+00:00

Asking questions like it's an interview is a good way to flatline a conversation. You can physically escalate a lot faster than day game. Keep it light and fun, humor is more important and so is sexual escalation so say stuff like "Do you want me to take my shirt off now or later."

You will be approaching groups (or should be) so be ready for some shit tests or whatever those are called now. Those groups sometimes include guys. Some guys might see you talking with a girl and start giving you shit or start talking to her. I guess that'll be new for you, don't let him get on you're nerves but don't take their shit. Don't give any reason for him to just walk off with her. Don't let him talk to her or let her get interested in him but don't be weird. You can usually spot them coming and handle it with a "That guy over there looks pretty creepy doesn't he." and just use that to, even if it's joking, justify why she shouldn't talk with him.

Even if she doesn't believe it you can get her to play along, because if he approaches that's enough too validate your observation even when it's not true. There are a few more things but you should be okay, day game is already some top level stuff but I see this sub and don't think people know what kind of beast day game truly is.

Edit: second half added

Edit 2: explaining the creepy guy thing in depth; I don't like to explain that normally but felt it needed justification because shit talking other people without knowing why is a slippery shit slope

ookki · 2016-05-05T11:53:52+00:00

It's all in the feels and emotion. Display a fun party attitude and high energy.

Pretend you are a little kid again. They don't talk about deep topics. They just "fuck yeah ice cream" with a massive smile. They also express their emotions freely, "I'm having such a good time".

It's cliche but it's less about what you say and more how you say it. I'm living in Japan and my Japanese is not at deep conversation level. When I go out dancing I barely speak at all. Just eye contact and good feels.

recyclablebanthas · 2016-05-05T10:28:44+00:00

Besides mirror & bouncing the girl through different venues, my understanding is that club is not a place for logical conversation.

Well, yeah. The venue is built around the activities of dancing and listening to loud music. So it makes sense that connecting with people through "logical conversation," is not the easiest option.

You build attraction inside the club......

Yep.

......then isolate the girl to a more quiet place to build comfort.

Point of order here: If she's not comfortable with you when you're interacting with her in the club, she's not going anywhere with you, let alone some place "quiet."

If we want to be technical, you're building comfort back at the club before you go anywhere with her. If she's leaving the club with you, she's probably at least considering stuff happening, but is definitely feeling some level of trust to go anywhere with you.

So what are the things to do and say at this point?

There are no rules about this. It depends on you and her and the interaction at that point. Sometimes you might be leaving with someone already hot and heavy...... making out and such. Sometimes you might be leaving with someone who wants to talk more. Sometimes it might be in the middle somewhere. No way to predict. You are asking for more than you realize, for us to go down all the main possibilities that could arise at this point: it would be a book of an answer more than what you're already getting.

And it'd be kind of unnecessary anyway. Just go with the flow. If she's leaving with you, you have already passed the preliminaries and it's on you to LISTEN and PAY ATTENTION to the girl. She is not going to leave with you if you're on the bubble and she can't stand you. So relax a little.

As for what kinds of things to say or do, I couldn't say more without knowing what your dating goals are. Looking for something serious or something casual?

katalis · 2016-05-05T17:09:22+00:00

Cats. Or any cute funny animal really. Also fruits. Or nihilism. I just talk about whatever is fun to me, in a cheesy, playful way, so I get aroused, fun and value, which I then share with others.

Title	What are your favorite things to do/say/talk about to build comfort or rapport in club game?
Author	tannedandathletic
Upvotes	15
Comments	10
Date	May 5, 2016 8:06 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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