Things got a little weird and serious very quick, but it was obvious she was parading me around to her family and friends as well as her ex (father of her kids). She intentionally was trying to make her ex jealous because there were some circumstances where she seemed suspicious. The ex clearly wanted to catch us and probably wanted to confront me. She caught feelings within the first hookup, then I did accidentally a week or two after. Was I technically a rebound?

She was extremely sexually experienced and the chemistry was incredible, but the third time we hooked up we were distant and it wasn’t that good. We did our usual long goodbye hug and immediately knew I probably wasn’t going to be seeing her again. I now realize I have serious issues with insecurity, neediness, attachment, jealousy, and self esteem. I’m not experienced in bed as I’ve only had 3 sex partners at age 25 so the third time around to hook up I got extremely insecure and that completely turned her off. How do I recover from the situation? Is it best to move on or is there a possibility of hooking up again in the future? I want to learn from my mistakes so that I don’t run into this issue again so I can keep hooking up repeatedly with the same girl.