So this afternoon a gal on OKCupid sends me an inmail asking me how I was doing. I send her a generic reply about how I was just hanging out and she proceeds to let me know that she was chilling and smoking some bud. I decided to play along and ask her if she was looking for anything physical this afternoon, and she immediately replies "you read my mind, here's my number".

I'm looking at her profile pics and trying to decide what to do. She's about a four on a ten scale, 48 and full-figured. After about a half an hour of thinking about it, I decide to tell her that I'm not interested. She fires back a "fuck off then" and deletes the conversation.

Taking advantage of opportunities like this is a slippery slope, and I'd rather keep my dick hard for the caliber of women I know I'm capable of. Settling programs me to lower my standards, and I'd rather keep my aim high and put in the work to achieve what I'm after.

That's not to say that I don't have slight pangs of regret, but what's a brother to do...