Im fucking 6'3. 18. I work out. I fucking can get girls number. I can hold conversations, Im confident and I make women laugh. Why the fuck do I always get friendzoned.

Ironchar · 2016-12-07T07:18:10+00:00

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SexySmexxy · 2016-12-07T07:24:07+00:00

As someone who was once 16 you're just a pussy.

Most of us have all been there.

iamchangalang · 2016-12-07T07:00:13+00:00

Figure out why the friend zone doesn't exist first. Maybe then you'll understand how women work.

thatcatwhisperer · 2016-12-07T16:38:09+00:00

Touch is a very important social tool. It can be the biggest filter that separates "friends" from "dating material" in the minds of women (and possibly people in general). Do you touch these women? Are you comfortable and natural when touching them? If not:

Become comfortable with touching people. Make sure it's natural, or it comes off as creepy. Read more about touching. In the seduction community, there's a lot of material around "kino". If you've got the other things (confidence, conversation skills) right this should help.

11-Eleven-11 · 2016-12-07T06:53:55+00:00

I'd make your intentions clear. Let them know right away you'd like to take them on a date or let her know you aren't interested in being her friend. Just something to try. I don't know if it will work or not.

Ragnrok · 2016-12-07T16:18:13+00:00

You sound bitter. You sound bitter and angry and I wouldn't be at all surprised if you come off as more than a bit desperate.

Here's one of life's great injustices: The less you care about sleeping with a woman, the easier it is to get her into bed. So basically you need to work on getting yourself into a mindframe where you really don't care one way or another if an interaction with a woman is gonna lead to sex.

And seriously, that rage is a huge turn off for women. Either get good at acting or smoke a fat bowl before dates.

2016-12-07T08:02:03+00:00

As a woman, I suggest going out of your age group and finding an older woman. Most I know only want a sexual relationship, such as I.

My current lover is six years younger than me. When we first met he made it known he was interested in me and asked if anything would come of us. I told him that I would happily fuck him, but no dating. That was a year and a half ago.

But try making your intentions clear. Flirt, tease, and even just outright say what you are wanting. Find out early on so your time is not being wasted on little girls who only like to play games.

Snake0987654321 · 2016-12-07T07:07:55+00:00

Make a move bro

isweartoofuckingmuch · 2016-12-07T12:12:46+00:00

You are probably a lot more invested into her than she is into you, and this is NOT attractive. Probably also combined with a lack of making a move

troyboltonislife · 2016-12-07T23:39:51+00:00

I'm sure a lot of guys feel exactly like you to the T, including me.

I think our problem is that we don't touch girls. I swear to god I just noticed this but every girl that I've met that I started off with a handshake when i'm meeting them has been much more receptive and less likely to put me in the friend zone.

Now for girls where I didn't meet them and shake their hands( like I couldn't because it was in class or didn't get introduced properly) then I get put in the friend zone.

unless your touching from the initial get go then it's hard to initiate it later on.

If anyone can solve that problem for me I'd love to hear it. Being touchy with a girl out of nowhere that is.

2016-12-08T04:09:52+00:00

Maybe you're being intimidating. Girls want a friendly open and conversational guy. Only a tiny segment of women like the aggressive Jersey Shore musclehead types.

ApollosSin · 2016-12-08T14:51:20+00:00

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