When you have the mindset that you have to get a woman's phone number, you have to take her on a date, etc, you'll feel like a failure each and every time when you come back empty handed. Get rid of the "telemarketer approach" when it comes to meeting women. When you talk to women everywhere you go, without trying to get anything out of the encounter, you ten times your success rate.

Each encounter should be natural. The goal is not to get the girl, it's about becoming more aware, letting go of fear, and fixing the many things ruining your success with women.

When you see a woman, your brain goes into a certain mode like you have to get her or you're a failure. When you have this mentality, it destroys your confidence. Enjoy her beauty, but don't treat it like an accomplishment if you get the beautiful girl. When you interact with tons of attractive women, their beauty becomes more normal to you.

When you talk to women everywhere you go, you bump into the same women in different places sometimes. This allows you to talk to them in a more natural way. No pick up lines or tricks needed.

It's not always what you say, but the vibe you give off when you interact with women. If she's a barista at a coffee shop, she'll appreciate a little small talk while she makes your coffee that doesn't involve her going on a date or giving her number.

That girl eating her lunch in the park doesn't have time to talk for a very long time with you. A few words exchanged and a farewell to allow her to finish her food will be greatly appreciated. Maybe one day you'll see her under better circumstances.

The attitude you want to have is beautiful women are everywhere, so it's okay to not get the number or go on a date.

"How am I gonna go on a date if I don't put it out there"

Being that you have been "training", women will start showing more interest. You'll notice that some women will try to keep you around longer because they are interested. If you ask these women for their number, you may get it willingly, it will be real, and she will respond.

Some of you have friends that women just gravitate to them within the first few seconds of meeting them. These guys aren't always the best looking or the best dressed. The thirst in these men is non-existent. Yes, they do want to go out and meet women, but they don't feel like they HAVE to get this girl in order to feel like they've accomplished something.

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