Okay, so ill start off by saying I'm a pretty good looking guy who is decently built (after much training) and 6'1. You are probably saying that i shouldn't have any issues but the thing is i used to be ugly up until Jr year of HS and i started having girls think I'm attractive a lot but the thing was, i wasn't used to it and didn't know how to capitalize. Now even to today its like when i start to know a girl is flirting with me its like I'm "afraid" or don't know what to do because of my history and just not going for it. I cant tell you how many girls Ive missed out on because i didn't go for it and i hate it! I cant understand why my mind is like this because Ive done so many physical things to make me very attractive but my mind still considers me my old self. Now don't get me wrong, at times i can be extremely flirtatious but it is very thin compared to my problem. Any tips or experiences similar? I know guys that are overweight and pull way more girls than i can even comprehend just because of his asshole-ish personality and it baffles me because here i am, better looking and muscular. What can i do to help? And how can I practice having more clever and witty comments to say? Should i change my personality around girls to a more asshole style because that seems to be what works?