How do you feel about staying in the friendzone?

drifter105 · 2013-10-24T12:50:55+00:00

Having female friends is good. the friendzone is bad when you are not communicating your true feelings.

joshsway · 2013-10-24T16:43:41+00:00

There is a difference between having female friends and being friendzoned... friendzone usually = getting rejected or being friends with a girl you want to hook up with. I find that a very annoying feeling. Female friends are great. I have plenty.

c0c0lopez · 2013-10-24T05:43:54+00:00

Being in the friend zone is awesome... With other girls... If you already have a gf. It's a great why yo "spy on the other team," or just get really comfortable with talking to women in general. Basically, as long as you aren't trying to get inside it, you couldn't be in a better place.

Zeroca · 2013-10-24T12:54:34+00:00

Why do people always think girls know what girls want or truly desire? If you have problems with your liver you would not just ask anybody who happens to have a liver for advice, would you? You would rather learn from an expert on that field so you can actually gain something from a talk. Sure you can sort out some pieces of advice by analyzing all he says, but you´d rather go do some experiments, read about it, and just test stuff. Experimenting on your liver is a little more dangerous than with girls, since you only have one liver but millions of girls in contrast but that makes it even easier to go out there and experiment with them.

So friendzone just in order to learn is ill-advised. If she´s a true friend to you, you better tend that friendship but if it´s just a mean to observe that is more than just creepy and pathetic.

dhockey63 · 2013-10-24T18:21:46+00:00

A girl doesn't like you back? Suck it up, you're still friends with a wonderful person who just might mention how kind or funny you are to one of her friends, who may be interested in you.

Jessie_James · 2013-10-24T13:25:29+00:00

Female friends are fine if, and only if, they are hooking you up with their friends. They have to see you as a sexual man. If not, you're not a friend, you're a child to them.

Typically guys end up being "feminized" and acting like women (not men) around women, which basically means you're not being sexual. That makes you very unattractive to women. You are essentially practicing how to NOT be a man.

If you're having problems dating women at all, I strongly recommend you do not be friends with ANY women. Instead, hang out with men and ask for their advice, watch what they do, tailor and improve their techniques, and try it for yourself.

Title	How do you feel about staying in the friendzone?
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Upvotes	3
Comments	8
Date	October 24, 2013 5:13 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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