I got a lot out of this article, hope you do too. I think the indirect language thing is very important. I am interested in finding examples to better understand application.

Near the end he talks about enticing people to want to understand you. Does anyone have insight into the mechanics of this? i find this quite difficult in group situations and i think mastering group social dynamics will inform 1 on 1 dynamics and moreso, will help you get girls in a group because you are implicitly dhving just by showing up.

Edit: ya, i meant this http://krauserpua.com/2011/11/29/the-semiotics-of-frame-control/

Not sure what happened when i posted.