Hey guys, so I recently joined a club in my college. the club is very small and has less than 7 members, everyone knows each other and the whole place is generally a bit nerdy(except like 3 ppl, just to provide context), so there isn't flirting that goes on or anything like that. the head of the club is a professor who is very involved.
anyway i've recently joined, it happened that i saw a girl that i really found cute there. problem is, the only time i see her is when she's at the club. before the club i never see her, and she usually leaves a early before the club ends(so I can't walk with her), and we usually have to go opposite ways when she DOES leave at the end or is walking with one of the members. During the club, and due to the small size I can NEVER isolate her because she's always around everyone. The vibe is a bit nerdy so I don't want to make a big scene of talking to her/getting her number because everyone will trip out.
I just need FIVE fucking minutes to get attraction, isolate, and number/date close..but I never get to. It's been a few weeks, we're not really too close and we exchanged a couple flirty comments here and there, but never too much and I try to keep a distance to avoid being friendzoned or be categorized as "a club member"(is it too late? i maybe saw her around 5 times in all).
How can I get a little time to talk to this girl?
Or better yet, do you guys have a method for being able to get her number and indicate interest in this sort of setting?
Do you guys thinking also leaving early at the same time that she leaves and walking her is a bad idea? I feel like it's creepy/clingy.
Everyone is always being watched so I don't want that type of attention because everyone will make a scene and it'll end up hurting me in the end. i don't want a communicate that I'm a guy who doesn't "get" the whole, keeping things quiet thing.
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