First of, this is my second post here. Although I already thanked you all for this fucking bad ass community, I thank you again in this post because I was a total pussy in that post.

Here is my situation, I live in a new country and my current game mostly starts in Tinder (I do night approaches but am not successful at it, since Tinder game is easier for me, I want to use it to build comfort for my self when I'm around girls first)

I'm a good looking guy with a confident body posture and I voice. I am able to preserve this on a date with any girl no matter how hot she is. But I have a big problem, I keep those conversations very nice. I think I am not a bad ass at all during those dates. When I am on a date with a girl, I don't think about sex at all. I enjoy the conversation and those conversations are mostly about things we love to do for fun and our past lives. I do little banter and be non-sexual at all. Even though (I'am sure) the girls also enjoy the date and the conversation, I cannot get laid on the first date.

Last night I met that little hot Asian girl, we spent very nice time. She started to make plans like "we can do that next time" etc etc. At the end of the night, in my car, in front of her house, we had a little conversation and I asked her "So what do you think? Am I dangerous?" (this was a recall to our chat on Tinder, she has told me "I'll tell you if you are dangerous when we met") And she answered "You don't look dangerous". I said "You didn't see anything yet" and grabbed her arm, pulled her for the kiss but she said "On the cheek! :)))" I kissed her on the cheek, and sent her. In the morning I texted her about how I enjoyed our date and she texted back something like "it was a pleasure to me :blushface:".

I take this as a unsuccessfull date 'cause I am not into any kind of serious relationship (I guess I framed this well during our date) and I was there for the fuck and I could not get it.

Is there any help you can give me?