A much younger friend and I were out, at a town fair, with other friends.

After a while his sister appears with an unknown girl, 20ish, thin, small, small tits, nice face, very extrovert, foreign, but speaking passably in our language.

Prety cute package all in all.

After a while she seemed to be giving him IOIs, but he wasn't recognizing any of them. I stepped in and started to wing for him. I steered both in the other's directions, making sure I didn't show interest in her. Just having fun.

After a while they were on their own, dancing a bit and goofing around.

About an hour later she started to gravitate towards me. She got fairly drunk and while others were mixing around she insisted she was plastered and not feeling well, and practically begged me to take her home.

The drive was about 15 minutes, and in this time she just opened to me, as if I was a long time friend.

She's an au pair, so going in the house wasn't an option, neither was going to my place and driving her back before morning, so we kissed, and set a date for next Saturday.

As she was clearly impaired, and not comfortable, I didn't escalate beyond the kiss. No need to get into a potential non-consensual minefield. Plus I scored some points as a safe guy.

One of the things she said, about my friend is that he was all over her, she used the expression "so needy", and how he was too touchy.

Takeaways from this:

If a girl smells the slightest whiff of over investment or neediness, you are screwed.

Have fun on your own, women will want a piece of the fun.

Calibrate kino. It's a fine line

I was the eldest in the group, had gone with no expectations whatsoever in regards to women, so I was just enjoying the party, clinking glasses with everyone, paying for a couple of rounds for the gang, and generally just being jovial. I'm certain this attitude made me attractive to the women, a challenge if you will. Another girl, there with her boyfriend, kept locking eyes with me, but the last thing I'd want in that situation was to start a potential conflict.

Be the fun rock in a group, do your best to seem the guy with the strongest frame, divide your attention among the various women, engage in constant, light, push-pull with all of them. Normally one or two of them will try to capitalize on your attention. When that happens, let them escalate. When that happens take the lead.

If a woman gives you extra attention, don't be all over her. Dish out your attention in small morsels, she'll be piqued and push forward.

I'm not very sure about the etiquette of being a wing and taking the girl, but seeing how my friend had totally shot his chances, I figured I might see if I'd make something out of the situation.

Note: besides all the things mentioned, I'm the fairly "hot dad" type, and this girl seemed to have daddy issues, so that may have made her gravitate towards me. We'll see next Saturday how it pans out with less alcohol involved.