AskSeduction: Any solo pickup tips?

Sublomino · 2009-08-25T02:33:54+00:00

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Sublomino · 2009-08-25T02:45:50+00:00

You don't have to go to a bar... Go and do anything that you enjoy doing where other people will be there doing the same thing - a class, a booksigning, a sport, rocking out to a local band. Bars are only a good place for trying out new routines and lines because there is a high volume of people traffic. Unless you really really enjoy going to bars, you've got a low chance of meeting someone there who genuinely clicks with you. One way to enjoy bars is to go there only to group up with friends and loosen up right BEFORE going to do something else, like going to a concert, party, community event. That way, the bar isn't the destination, but a brief waypoint in a series of destinations. That could also include bar-hopping to get a better feel for the local flavor. Anyway, if you're going to be extracting a hottie from the bar, where are you going to extract her to? Might as well be another location that you were going to anyways, other than to take her straight back to your place. You've gotta bounce a few times first, they might as well be things that you really enjoy doing anyways.

2009-08-25T17:49:51+00:00

I fly solo to bars all the time, with moderate success most of the time. My "strategy" if you'd like to call it as such is to simply work the place, male and female alike. I often find a wingman (or, better yet, a guy who already knows a girl/girls there) that very night, all the while raising my perceived "value" by being the cool, friendly guy that's just there to have fun (which I really am). Nothing says "creep" more clearly than talking exclusively to chicks unless you have way more game than I do. Moral of the story: go there to have fun and you probably will.

2009-08-25T21:50:22+00:00

I've had plenty of success flying solo, here are my tips:

Find a good bar where the kind of girls you like hang out. Go there a lot and make sure you're "known" there.
In any given bar, talk to guys and girls, you want to give the impression that you have a "tribe" there at the bar.
Learn some cool bar hustles and use them in a playful way.
Make sure you're dressed in a way that fits with the bar theme, but also helps you stand out and makes you look good.
Make sure you study and read from the master puas so you understand the theory and practice of picking up.

neurolux · 2009-08-25T06:00:45+00:00

Cash is King!

nerocorvo · 2009-08-25T06:08:47+00:00

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Title	AskSeduction: Any solo pickup tips?
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Upvotes	7
Comments	24
Date	August 25, 2009 12:48 AM UTC (16 years ago)
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