I talk to a lot of people at my school in efforts to improve my conversational game. I'm after girls mostly, with limited success. I don't often discriminate between people and have a lot of passing friends. I think I am overly talkative with people because after I spend time with people, I often feel depleted. I justify continuing to do this as "working on my conversational skills." I'm worried that other people notice and wonder what they think. One girl called me the "social kat."

Has anyone else ever had this experience before of being depleted after talking and what that means?

Also any thoughts on what to focus on if I do want to improve my conversational game?