I'm not really into the PUA thing, nor have i read any of the literature. Seddit is on my front page and ill read it when i see an intriguing title. I'm not against it I just haven't gotten around to really reading up about it. That being said i haven't had to many issues getting what i want. However, tell me if I've fucked up my chances..

So I've been hanging out with this girl the past 3 nights and I've failed to pull the trigger and move in for a kiss despite some obvious signs. She mirrors me, she sits with her body language open to me, there is flirty touching that she doesn't pull away from or will actually lean into.

The only thing is she has been kind of run down/sick. Sore throat, coughing, runny nose, etc and it's got slightly worse each night we've hung coming into tonight. Despite feeling down she is always into hanging out and we text back and forth most of the day.

We were suppose to go out for some food/drinks but by the time i got out of work it was too late and SHE suggested we just hang at my place. We spent 4 hours on my own bed talking/watching TV. I had a couple opportunities were i could have just gone for it but the sick thing was making me second guess. It didn't bother me personally but despite all the green lights i was getting i kept thinking i wouldn't want anyone else to move into kiss me if my nose was running constantly haha.

Anyway, she left like 40 min ago and i got a hug (dun dun dun). Short but tight with full-body contact. I'm kind of kicking myself right now. Any other time i would have made a move but this made me hesitate and now I'm thinking I'm getting friend zoned.

Can I salvage this? Any txts or comments I can make that will help me get a feel for where I am?

Edit: txts since

her: I'm home! I'm wide awake now! me: lol so you're saying you didn't need to leave me.. her: I was falling asleep on your bed! me: I can't tell if you're blaming me or the bed =p? her: well it is really comfy and you obvz have a calming effect.

meh..

edit: Yea im being a pussy. I'll fix it.