This is my first time being single in 3 years (I've had 4 girlfriends throughout this time period) and now i'm in college. I don't have an issue talking with women or flirting but it seems like I can't build a connection for the life of me. I have a feeling this has to do with the environment (Normally at house/apartment parties) but I don't know what i'm doing wrong. Can anyone give me helpful college-specific pointers?