How to walk around at parties/in clubs?

RCSka · 2010-10-31T10:12:44+00:00

Here is a little tip i do. Enjoy every moment you are in, no matter what you are doing. you must have this look on your face and body that shows that you're a very comfortable person. So tell yourself every time you do something "I enjoy doing blah blah", and even if you don't enjoy it, just enjoy the moment. I notice this when I was watching Ocean's 11 in the first few scenes with George Clooney. The face he was making look like he enjoyed being in jail, and he enjoyed every moment no matter what.

Also if you want the frame of owning the place. Think of it this way, when you walk into a club or house act like you own the place and they owe you another club or house because you're so awesome. Also start imagining that you built that place WITH YOUR BARE HANDS! Start talking to everyone and high energy when you do it. Doesn't matter what you say, say it strong. Remember Strong and wrong, so If it feels wrong say it Strong.

P.s My grammar might shit cuz I just finished a play today that went on 6 hours straight and I'm tired and it's late. P.s.s Drama club is a great way to meet chicks. ;)

NoShirtNoShoes · 2010-11-01T04:44:14+00:00

What I see so commonly at house parties, or even small gatherings, is a complete lack of introductions. People stand silently next to each other in a kitchen or living room, a place where you don't have the bar-like deniability of: "well they're strangers, I don't need to talk to them..." You're in someones house, for science's sake! It's so easy to say "Hey, I'm afcintraining... how do you know the host?" Even if YOU don't know the host, or THEY don't know the host, it's such an easy way to start a conversation.

Greet/introduce yourself to as many people as possible, as early as possible, whenever possible. Make small talk, try to find one common point or interest you share, use their name in conversation (to build familiarity and help you remember), and move on.

The more people you introduce yourself to, the fewer people you don't know... pretty soon you will feel like you own the place because everyone will know your name. If you ever feel an awkward pause coming or a lull in conversation, just say "excuse me" and find someone else you already met and continue a conversation with them.

Honestly, the hardest thing about this should be remembering names... especially if you're drinking.

tsibutsibu · 2010-10-31T12:00:56+00:00

Usually what I decide to do, which takes a little concentration, is I take my left foot first and place it slightly in front of me, then I actually end up following that foot with my other foot, the right, and then start the process back over.

Title	How to walk around at parties/in clubs?
Author	afcintraining
Upvotes	6
Comments	5
Date	October 31, 2010 8:14 AM UTC (15 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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