This is pretty basic stuff, so I'll preface this by acknowledging that, but at the same time stressing its importance.

In my last post, I mentioned this friend of mine who's a complete natural. I mentioned the idea to him (DeAngelo's originally, I think), of treating a girl like your bratty little sister to build attraction. Here's what my friend said: "If a chick's into me, it's all good. If shes playing mind games, fuck her. Tons of better chicks out there"

He said it like he's never even considered it an issue. Never even considered how many guys struggle with those very things for so long and never quite get to where he is mentally.

I replied, "what about the attachment, the neediness?"

"I can get attached too. Everyone can. But now it only happens when the girl is really awesome. Bottom-line is, I refuse to be treated like shit"

"And what about the guys who don't have all those other girls around them all the time?"

"Just get out there and talk to random girls. Thats what i do. Do that, stop taking shit, and you feel so boss."

Again, he says it like it's no issue whatsoever.

Thought I'd share my insight with the seddit community. I know it's nothing huge, but this week's been a big turning point for me. Cheers. As my friend finished by saying, "anything for a bro". Words to live by.

Slightly off-topic: I witnessed another natural I met today masterfully build attraction. I saw him meet a girl (solid HB9), and he introduced himself with flawless body-language; he's fairly attractive, too, so she was immediately showing IOIs. A few minutes later when she went to the bathroom, he hid her bag, and spent a good 15 minutes teasing her about it... for the most part play-wrestling with her. When he left, she followed suit, on to an 'instant' date about 20 minutes later. It really helps to see this stuff being done in front of your own eyes as opposed to just reading a printed page.