This may come across as a bit fucked up. That's not my intent so let's not get into an ethical metadiscussion or the like.

I've got one primary girl and then a few secondaries and I go out to hit on girls whenever I have the chance. Primary knows that I see other girls, that I don't 'do' monogamy, etc. While she knows that, I get the impressions she thinks she'll be able to change that. She won't.

I'm confident in most of my game, while acknowledging it's a lifelong journey. As part of that, I'd like to push boundaries in this current relationship. I don't mean I want to make her cluck like a chicken while fanning me with a palm leaf. But I want to use this opportunity, that for me is no/low risk, to 'try' things.

So, I'm looking for interesting social experiments I can try with this HB. One area I want to focus on is being even more dominant in bed. I need to push myself here. For instance, anal sex. Do I just tell her when we aren't having sex that I am going to do her in the ass? What are some things to do here? I'm sure she'd do anything I say up to a point. I don't think she's the one to use as a threesome enabler.

Beyond sex, I am sure there are tons of little things I can do that will teach me invaluable lessons about male / female relationships. Things that people may be too 'scared' to try in fear of losing the relationship. In the absolutely worst case scenario, if she didn't want to see me anymore, I wouldn't lose any sleep. I like to leave women better than I started though, so that is one underlining rule.

Any suggestions? It's a bit vague, but i think a few of you will get what I am saying here.