Seddit, I am going to a club in New York tonight and struggle with some confidence issues. If there is one piece of advice you could give me what would it be?

ThrowawayPUA · 2010-11-28T03:17:55+00:00

You do not care about what happens. You are having fun now, you don't care if girls reject you or not, there are plenty more where they came from.

2010-11-28T02:25:39+00:00

Whatever you find yourself doing, where ever you end up or who you're talking to... have some fun and smile.

cheddarchexmix · 2010-11-28T18:12:17+00:00

Talk to everyone. Be outcome-independent.

sagard · 2010-11-28T03:08:28+00:00

Act like you're having a lot more fun that you actually are. When you dance, fucking move your feet, don't just stand there swaying. People will start being more fun towards you. Ends up usually being a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Mat_Cauthon · 2010-11-28T04:07:38+00:00

Read the sidebar ;).

Barney21 · 2010-11-28T16:42:50+00:00

Don't worry about it.

FireSail · 2010-11-28T17:56:19+00:00

Know that most everyone else in that club has even more confidence issues than you do.

ryno55 · 2010-11-29T16:20:13+00:00

Stop giving a fuck.

If it helps, remind yourself that everyone is drunk and nobody will remember anything insignificant anyways.

2010-11-30T06:08:55+00:00

You're never going to see these people again, so even if you make an amazingly huge ass of yourself, it will never make a difference.

Title	Seddit, I am going to a club in New York tonight and struggle with some confidence issues. If there is one piece of advice you could give me what would it be?
Author	Applebaum
Upvotes	2
Comments	10
Date	November 28, 2010 2:07 AM UTC (15 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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