I like her quite a bit and am going on dates with a few other women at the moment. I am specifically seeing other women to redirect my focus away from her and to also open my field of vision up that she's not the only woman out there. Deep down I only really want to be with her. Lame, I know. She's not the most attractive of the women I'm currently seeing (not saying she isn't gorgeous), but she's so beautiful inside. I've known her for a few years through an old job, but I've only gone for a coffee with her outside of that. I don't text her very much and have only called twice in the few months I've had her number.

Am I wasting my time and hers? Reddit, slap the crazy out of me.

Humor is appreciated as much as real advice. TIA