So I've devoted a lot of my time in the last few months reading everything about pick up, watching RSD dvds, and going out frequently and trying to improve. I really enjoyed "The Blueprint" and what I mainly learned from that was instilling a constant core confidence to be in state almost all the time. There was also the theme of avoiding canned material and avoiding interview style questions.
My problem is that I'm just not good at opening and initial impressions. I don't like to consider myself an AFC because I'm very good at seducing women that I'm forced to be around. I always pull the hottest girls at any jobs that I have, girls I have classes with, girls that are friends of friends and in our social circle... I've slept with a good number of women, had threesomes (the good kind), and usually have at least one fuck-buddy at any given time. BUT for the life of me, I am abysmal at cold approach and pick up. I think I've only ever pulled 1 or 2 girls from situations outside of the circumstances I listed above and I can't seem to progress.
I would say my biggest struggle is opening, not being able to build immediate attraction, and then defaulting to asking interview questions that inevitably leads nowhere so I eject. Does anyone have any advice on how I can conquer this problem?
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