AFC losing the HB8 because he no longer gives a shit.

TofuTofu · 2011-01-23T03:47:30+00:00

Question is...should I be trying to just get free of this situation or should I try to turn it for a F-Close? Honestly, I want nothing to do with her, but it'd be poetic justice to get her into bed and turn the tables on her. Not sure its a good idea, though, given that I dont know that I can handle that.

You have a horrible attitude. You do not deserve the HB8 with the way your mind currently operates.

You need to come from an attitude of being a VALUE GIVER not a VALUE TAKER. If you do not leave the girl better off than when you met her (and fucking her and leaving will not be doing this) then you're not on your way to being alpha and sexworthy.

Forget this girl. Work on your inner game and try again, only that time with a hundred girls.

ThrowawayPUA · 2011-01-23T05:00:17+00:00

The HB8 that I've hung with for a few months and am locked into "friendzone" with consistently gets kino with me, puts out massive IOIs and reels me back in everytime I feel like I'm finally getting off of the hooks.

You are an "orbiter." She gets validation by having guys orbiting. They all think they might get a shot at her, but they never will. If you give up and try to leave orbit, she will shoot IOIs at you and make you think you still have a chance. You don't. Move on.

frogma · 2011-01-23T01:57:03+00:00

GTFO dude. I mean, do whatever you want, but try to fuck some other girls. It sounds like oneitis even though you're saying it's not. But make sure to text her back if she says something like "I wanna fuck you right now."

libertas · 2011-01-23T08:57:24+00:00

You're toast. Your value is so low with this girl that you can never recover it, unless you have serious game, which you don't. Tofu is correct. You need to develop an attitude of abundance - right now you are coming from a place of crippling insecurity.

chebb · 2011-01-23T03:15:30+00:00

I'm a little bit confused here. She's a hb8, and you're single. Why are you trying to "get free of this situation". If she consistently goes kino on you, throws IOIs at you, why do you want to "get off the hooks" and are "hardcore focused on just getting away from her". If you want sex and she does too then yes, why not turn it into an f-close?

I'm almost certain I'm missing something really obvious here.

Title	AFC losing the HB8 because he no longer gives a shit.
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Date	January 23, 2011 1:40 AM UTC (15 years ago)
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