Does a post first date follow up text (same night) implicitly imply they had a good time?

frogma · 2011-02-04T15:31:54+00:00

With all this together, I get the feeling she originally wasn't comfortable (brought friends), and then you made it worse by not building attraction (hug goodbye + "Thanks again for the drinks!"). If you met online, next the bitch. Either way, I guess you could meet up again if you want, but this time you'd definitely need to build attraction/comfort and escalate.

Edit: I may be wrong about the situation, but "Thanks again for the drinks!" wouldn't make me particularly happy, especially if I hadn't built up the kino or been especially flirty- but maybe you did that.

Nefai · 2011-02-04T12:49:24+00:00

She was thinking about you after you went your separate ways... always a good sign :)

I wouldn't wait for her to call you though, even in 2011. Call her.

SockGnome · 2011-02-04T12:55:31+00:00

I'd say it doesn't look good. She springs more people on you for your date last moment? Did you pay for everyones drinks? Where did you met this girl (Internet)? I'd give it another shoot and see how a second date goes before cutting her off or purusing any more dates.

daygamer · 2011-02-04T15:07:32+00:00

A text straight after a date is a great sign.

I just find it odd she brought two people along. It implies she wasn't comfortable being alone with you. That could just mean you hadn't built enough comfort yet.

All you can do is try and get her out on a second date. If she agrees and comes alone this time, then it's on.

NotaUniqueSnowflake · 2011-02-04T12:49:08+00:00

I would say yes. Although, that may be all she is implying. Try setting another one up and she how she responds. If she wants to bring other people again, she most likely is just looking for free drinks. Good luck.

igotfiveonit · 2011-02-04T13:18:32+00:00

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Title	Does a post first date follow up text (same night) implicitly imply they had a good time?
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Date	February 4, 2011 12:44 PM UTC (15 years ago)
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