Seddit, I hope I reached a turning point here. Had a volleyball game today, saw a cute girl who was on a different team waiting for her game to start, she kept glancing over at me making brief eye contact and all around checking me out... and I did JACK SHIT. Second time this has happened to me in a matter of a week (the other being on Valentine's Day)... and a different girl I have been dating was actually in my apartment and I failed to escalate a few days back.

The pain of knowing that I could have approached and not doing so is much worse than any actual rejection that I could have had.

Right now my mentality is "fuck it... I'm going to approach any girl I feel like, and simply not give a fuck anymore", I'm hoping that I can carry this feeling with me. If you have any tips on how not to lose this feeling, please let me know.

TL;DR: Very cute girl was checking me out and making eye contact... I didn't approach. A few days back a girl wanted to come into my apartment and I failed to escalate. The pain of not acting is worse than any rejection I can face. Hope to keep this mindset, any tips on how to keep this be great.