I've read RP theory for 2 years. But I still find myself 'feeling' and 'falling' in love. Please help.

abudun79 · 2018-08-30T16:57:27+00:00

Red pill is not about not feeling, not falling in love and all this childish bullshit. It's about dealing with life and women. Successfully.

There's no problem, no shame, nothing bad about falling in love. It's only problematic, shameful and stupid if you know the red pill principles and still believe she will be special, loving you the way you love her. Enjoy the feeling of love, but don't fall into the blue pill trap because of your love.

After two years you should know that and have a fair understanding of how to deal with women and how to deal with life. Or did you just poke around these superficial subs?

CainPrice · 2018-08-30T17:17:42+00:00

You're supposed to like the people you have sex with. That's normal. Just don't marry them.

Let yourself feel. Enjoy the company of women. Appreciate them. Let things run their course, then enjoy the company of other women.

Trying to be some kind of sex-having robot isn't a very good life. It's okay to feel. It's okay to like women. The entire reason you want to get better with girls is because you like women, right?

Chit-Chad · 2018-08-30T17:31:54+00:00

I haven't been on this sub as long but I've come far. Yet, every girl I have a real connection with, I end up with the same old BP attachment. You're a civilized being, not an animal and feeling love is natural. Heck, what the fuck is even love? You get a feeling and you believe that's love, you can't quantify it and it's subjective per individual. What RP tells you is this love that you feel, won't be reciprocated. Which is why men are pretty brutal on this sub, not because they're sadistic but because they probably have the same feelings and know the usual outcome when you act on it. Shit makes you delusional, and it pays to have a community tell you that she's not special and that you're being a bitch.

You have to acknowledge that this is natural and that you have to control acting on it - which is where frame comes in. No matter how special the girl feels, you cannot act on it. It's sad, but such is life.

imPwP · 2018-08-30T16:54:43+00:00

I go full RP mode for a while, and then stumble down and fall back in these feels - but after every fall I do pick up and learn to handle it better. How do you deal with these things?

Title	I've read RP theory for 2 years. But I still find myself 'feeling' and 'falling' in love. Please help.
Author	imPwP
Upvotes	2
Comments	8
Date	August 30, 2018 4:53 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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