The girl I'm dating canceled our date only a couple hours before we were supposed to meet. I'm not sure how to react...

acartoontiger · 2011-03-27T00:46:00+00:00

You're putting way to much effort into pleasing her and then emotionally committing. AFC move because it sets you up for being heart broken like what is happening now.

Invitation to eat at home is usually sexy time; she knows what you have in mind and probably got cold feet.

I'd reframe by not getting all romantic again. She is no different. Don't invest yourself so much so early on.

What to do: Cook the steaks and enjoy the food. Arrange the flowers in your house for your own amusement. Go out and sarge other women. Freeze her out. Run traditional game. Escalate and don't put out the red carpet cause it looks needy and gives her all the power to fuck with your mind.

07SS · 2011-03-27T01:11:29+00:00

Jam out to some ac/dc to pull you out of your funk. Sounds weird, but do it. Guarantee you'll stop feeling sorry for yourself, sittin with your thumb up your ass (no offense)

ymrhawk · 2011-03-27T01:41:51+00:00

She has slept over but we have stopped before sex.

Ok but then why go into commitment relationship mode when there is still work to be done? I know people do not have to have sex to be in relationships but you still follow the rules of attraction until this happens. Girls will most likely be in game mode until sex happens so don't assume otherwise.

Making dinner for a girl is a HUGE deal and it should be a reward for things that they do, not just because you are still courting them. They really do feel uncomfortable when you do too much in the beginning.

2011-03-27T02:59:18+00:00

I'm a bit harsher than the other guys here but I generally see a last-minute cancel as a pretty big offense. That girl goes to the end of my list unless she makes it up to me. If it happens twice I delete her contact details and forget her.

2011-03-27T14:17:43+00:00

More food for you. Fuck it.

Title	The girl I'm dating canceled our date only a couple hours before we were supposed to meet. I'm not sure how to react...
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Date	March 27, 2011 12:38 AM UTC (15 years ago)
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