Thanks for checking out this FR, which will be my second (after the previous was a sad failure!) and will be created to project as much useful information (including what I did wrong) as possible. I will also structure it so it's an easy read, though it may be quite long as there is a lot of stuff I'd like to share. Comments/feedback are always appreciated!
Meeting the girl:
I went to my male friend's house to hang out and HB7 happened to be there with her BF. I had seen HB7 before in passing, as my friend has known her for quite some time, and I never really thought anything of it. Today, I was also not planning on picking her up. In fact, I thought her AFC boyfriend was actually a pretty cool guy, and felt bad considering it.
Unfortunately for him I have a tendency to perform pickup techniques on most any girl I am hanging with, whether it be for practice or others reasons, it's something I've been doing for a while now.
Stealing the set/group
Before I came in, my friend, HB7, and AFC BF were just sitting around listening to music and talking every once in a while. When I came in (with a smile), i immediately stole their attention. I told them about how crazy it was driving down there, and how hilarious it is when people are roadraged. I was engaging the BF (who thought I was great and didn't see me as a target), and even though I've never met him I made sure to talk like we were old friends.
Seeing as the BF didn't see me as a threat, I was free to perform kino escalation and even isolate HB7. After talking for around 30 minutes, with me negging her quite a bit about her guitar playing (she tried to play along with me and a friend who were practicing some stuff -- not performing for anyone). We then went to go shopping for something my friend needed.
On the way to the place, i was complaining about the heat saying "i'm hot" and asking to change the temp. She responded with one of her first HUGE IOI's (with her BF sitting right next to her!) with "Then PLEASE take your shirt off." -- her BF did nothing but attempt to laugh. I felt bad, he was a very beta AFC but a nice guy... as usual.
Failure point: Not responding to IOI's, too many fake IOD's
I did not properly respond to the following barrage of IOI's. They were flying at me like crazy, and for some reason I kept negging her. I should have started showing IOI's, and I did, but not enough. I would position her to show her something with my hand on her hips, and play games with her, but she still thought I was totally not interested.
My incorrect assumption:
I thought with my few IOI's (i'm always afraid to overkill it) she'd get the point, I even sat next to her and had my hand on her hip at one point just sitting there. I was completely wrong. A few hours later her AFC boyfriend had to go, and she was ready to party... with another guy. On the car ride back, void of AFC BF, she said "BF is so lame etc. etc. and we're breaking up etc. etc." -- "Do you know any guys you could set me up with?"
This was a HUGE crush to my self-esteem, as I wasn't sure if I had completely failed. I felt like driving home and calling up a 6 I know and just trying in desperation to F-close her. Hours of gaming... had it failed me?
Luckily I decided to stay, and even to sleep over for the night. I wasn't giving up yet. I started giving IOI's out the @$$, and even told my friend I wanted her so he could not go and pick up another dude for her. She was about to leave to go meet some guy, and that's it kind of hit her, when my friend (a great wing) started talking about me directly to her as she was about to go. In fact I even had to ask her to stay. I felt unsure about what was going on, but it worked. This was my main failure point: too many negs, fake IOD's, playful banter. I needed to push the seduction.
She then went upstairs, and sat on my friend's bed right next to me. She wasn't going to make the first move, and I was kind of feeling bad from earlier still unsure. She tells me I'm a jerk in a playful way for being "so mean" to her, etc. and we just BS for a few while the music starts being turned up and my friend goes to get his GF. She says "Plus, I'm a good girl" in response to one of my comments and I say "Really? We'll have to see about that" and grab her and start making out with her. She goes WILD, starts clawing me and pulling my haiir full-force.
Skipping ahead after we have gotten more intimate she says "Wait. Stop." -- Me: "What's up?" -- She says "I don't want you to think I'm a slut. When are you going to see me next?" -- I said "Tuesday." She proceeds and we get a bit more intimate then she says "Wait... we shouldn't be doing this... I hardly know you." I said "You're right, we REALLY shouldn't be" and start going at it again.
F-close and I find out she added her # to my phone hours earlier. She tells me after "The reason I wanted to fuck you so badly was because I thought you wanted nothing to do with me, honestly. You were so mean, and I couldn't figure out why... what I was doing wrong." -- In her own words. I am not a dick, but I do neg a lot. This time I did it a bit too much but we saved the sinking ship.
She's now texting me non-stop, and I would like a little advice. I try and go light on the texting, but she keeps texting "Hey, what's up?" and "How are you" every few hours (She realllly wants to hang out again and I guess hardly sleeps with guys like this), but how exactly do I respond to this? So far I;'ve kind of answered with a joke or something, but I'm getting unsure of the approach here. Thanks guys, please leave feedback and such, this has been a long FR but I hope it helps you out.
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