What I call an 'enabler' is something like a 'pick up line' but not for a girl you're trying to ask out or anything, just to grind up on at the dance floor and do your thing... I (like most of you guys probably do now) used to kinda just awkwardly dance wherever I was and usually a girl would end up right infront of me; then I would feel really creepy just grinding up on her without saying anything.. but most of the time if I just stood there she would kind of back up anyway and once in a while brush her ass against my crotch.. this just makes it more awkward if you didn't say anything!

So I leaned into her ear and said the first thing that came to my head, "hey! your butt keeps touching my crotch.. she bertstares me ..it feels good!" at that point i thought i was done for, it came out so weird sounding, but she dug it, laughed, and then stopped brushing it and just started pumping at it ;)

anyone want to share some easy one-liner 'enablers' to let a girl know you are down for her to grind on you?? (they are just as insecure as we are about it FYI...)