Background on chick-- READ THIS: Broke up with her boyfriend same nigth she talked to me, claimed that she has trust issues because she 'doesn't want to be used" (She fiddled with a flower and broke her gaze with me when she said this) and had some very strong LMR because I literally just met her the same day and she was planning to go pretty far with a stranger

Friend gets a call from a chick who's angry for him calling her ugly. So I take over the phone and I start talking about general stuff, qualification and whatnot, like what she wanted to be, started about talking more open stuff like sexuality, what we want to be, what we do for a hobby. And we started flirting on the phone and she was into it. Soon I find myself, accusing her of seducing me and she starts playing a game where I had to qualify myself to get with her by earning points by telling a bit about myself, what I like to do, and I push it to be more sexual, and I turn the game on her, But I did not do it enough as much as she did, which could have taken away from our interactions later

She gets turned on easily as I happen to be her fetish and we start talking dirty, etc. and at this point she practically tells me straight she wants me, referring to me as her "mistress" We agree to meet up the next day. She brings her friend, and I bring my wing to take her of her friend. But here is where things did not go well:

*Face to face interaction: *

  1. We meet up with the chicks, and I use a bit of humor to refer back to our conversation and I should have used more kino in her presence. I did put my arm her shoulder, waist, poked her a bit and just smacked around playfully. But one thing that just brought a red flag in my mind was her gestures. She appeared cold and uncertain by putting her hands in the pockets of her jacket. We held hands at one point, but she wasn't into that kind of thing. Return hands into pocket and continued walking with group

  2. Another POSSIBLE mistake that i made might have been my focus. Although there were 2 or 3 more people in our group (who my wing was walking off by himself), I put a majority of my focus to talking to the girl and trying to follow up on the stuff we wanted to do that we mentioned on the phone the night before. She had mentioned to me that she promised her friend to be with her company today-implying she wasn't going to do anything I ignored that and tried to spit game regardless. perhaps I put too much pressure on her? I think i'm over thinking this. I mean, she did want me really badly.

I noticed that a majority of the time she wanted to have control over me just because we talked about sex. The shift in power was imbalanced and I put her into check by ignoring her shit test as much as I could, but I have to admit I may have failed at one point. We end up going to an elevator, we play truth or dare, and I make playful jokes and comments about her as well as the rest of the group, to which I receive a playful slap here and there. But again, I think the presence of her friend killed the mood For example, friend calls me out for staring at the girl's ass. At these times, I came off to be too hard, and again she expected me to over qualify myself which is a trap I may have fallen into. There were times where I had pretty good lines to kiss her, but didn't. Fail tease.

To wrap up, she tries to make me jealous when my wings leave, her friend cockblocks me preventing me from talking to her, I get some time alone to confront her and where she talks about ex-boyfriend, trust issues. I offer a bit of my two cents, she gains a bit more trust in me, we hug goodbye, and on impulse, I kiss her neck and cheek.

I text a couple of hours later using some callback humor i developed that day, and this the convo that followed

Me: "Hey Moteck, don't get too sad that i wear my tight pants! Nice metting you today. -[My Nickname]"

Her: Just friends

Me: Cool

Her: ;) maybe benefits

Me: We'll see what happens (WHICH WAS TOTALLY UNNECESSARY, Yes, I realize it was a retarded text to send to her)

So what does Seddit think?:

  • Did I make any critical mistakes?

  • What do you think about the mistakes I pointed out?

  • Is there anything I could have done to improve the interactions or my approach?

  • Should I even bother with a follow up?