If you don't get laid on a first night with a girl, did she find you as a beta provider?

Musicgoon · 2018-09-01T19:25:17+00:00

No.

How far did you get? I usually will next after 3 dates unless there is steady progress.

For example; One plate I still have we went out to meet had drinks and made out. Next time we hung out it was a HJ. Third time was a blowjob then later in the evening we banged.

Others plates have fucked on the first night. You might have hesitated or her ASD kicked in.. If she wants to hang again you're golden. Just escalate.

900_year_old_vampire · 2018-09-01T19:39:22+00:00

you know women have their own ideas about this stuff, right? go ask one. these are the things they tell each other: "if he doesnt fuck you on the first date, hes probably a bitch" "if you dont fuck him after 3 dates, youre probably the one being a bitch" blah blah blah. its all a load of nonsense though. just fuck your women whenever you feel like it. there are no rules. we are all free to do as we please. personally i dont even take women im not already sleeping with out on dates. want my time and attention, gona have to earn it good luck

[deleted] · 2018-09-01T21:10:30+00:00

To be fair, sometimes you catch them on their period. Give it a second try and then you'll know.

atticusfinch1973 · 2018-09-01T21:14:25+00:00

As much as guys here would have you think otherwise, most guys don't get laid the first time they interact with a girl even if she's drunk.

1st date is maybe 10% close rate and ONLY if there's already rapport and sexual tension built up. By the 2nd date I've gotten laid 40-50% of the time and it goes up to 90% by the third date.

Two_kids_in_a_coat · 2018-09-01T21:55:34+00:00

No, unless it’s a college party or something like a girls night out you probably won’t on the first night. It happens, but not nearly as often as the 2-4th night out.

Title	If you don't get laid on a first night with a girl, did she find you as a beta provider?
Author	Leone_brt
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Date	September 1, 2018 7:07 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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