Hi Seddit. Today I opened a receptionist at my gym. She's into sex counselling and sex therapy(she told me that herself, so she must have somewhat found me attractive at the time) and I #closed her. I tried to ask her out yesterday but she said she had work today so she couldn't come to a movie with me. Makes sense, so I stopped by the gym to work out myself.

So after I finished my routines, I opened her with saying that I'm having some friends over soon and want to turn our engagement(between me and my two friends) into a threesome. This elicited a great response from her("OMG") and the conversation continued from there. I faked a phone call and told her I had to leave but asked if she was free tomorrow. She told me to just text her with the threesome bit.

I forgot to press past this and ask her out to a coffee shop or something and I left right after that.

Some positives of the day

  • I re-opened her
  • I went through with my conversation plan
  • I got an emotional response out of her
  • I still have her number

Negatives

  • I started to get a little "jumpy" with my stance and my hand gestures. I also leaned on the receptionist desk while talking.
  • I didn't talk about her or her experiences with a threesome. This could've easily led the conversation down a better road.
  • The conversation was short
  • I didn't push past the "text me" moment so I didn't close a date between us.

Now I got some questions for proceeding.

*Firstly, should I? I have her number and I could easily start texting her for advice on sex as the conversation went. I could also ask her out over text instead of leaving it there.
* Secondly, was the mention of a threesome a bad choice? I'm getting mixed feelings here. I feel that it was an okay way of displaying confidence - I emphasized that I have two girls that love me that are coming over and that I wanted to turn it into a threesome. On another end though, I feel that talking about lady lovers around other ladies can be a bad decision.
* Lastly, to re-emphasize the first point, where should I take this? Drop the phone contact? I'll still be seeing her at my gym...