I've been hanging out with this girl for a few weeks now, meeting up at bars and shows around the city we live in. Things are going well, she's slept over a few times and bedroom shenanigans ensue. I'm really into her and she seems really into me until all hell breaks loose Saturday night.

We had been texting all day about random stuff, she being at work and not enjoying it and me drinking 40s in the park with some friends. Night rolls around and my friend who we'll call "John" comes and picks me up so we can go out to an event at a local bar that only happens every so often. I plan on meeting up with previously mentioned girl, who we'll now call "Jess." She ends up coming to the bar a few minutes after we get there so the three of us, John, Jess and I head to the bar to get some drinks. Drinking continues, dancing to awesome music follows until she heads outside for a cigarette while I go take a piss. I come outside after finishing my business and see her chatting it up with another guy outside. I feel that twinge of jealously but am thinking that its not really a big deal, she's pretty open and really friendly so I head over to them. I throw an arm around her waist, and say something like, "hey you." We all start talking, this other dude, her and I. He seems like an ok dude until he asks her, right in front of me as i have my arm around her, to go inside and get some drinks. I'm completely dumfounded by this and watch as the two head inside for shots. I look around and see another friend who just says to me, "be alpha. your being beta right now, be alpha." I understand what he's saying but just cant really believe that just happened to me. I head back inside and find them at the bar talking and taking shots of tequila and start talking with them again, this time not putting my arm around her. They are doing most of the chatting since it was loud and there were people yelling all around.

Fast forward to closing time, im outside with her, this other dude and some of my friends. One of my friends says to Jess, "hey your a cute girl, can you go bum a cigarrette off someone for me?" Jess obliges and goes up to some random people on the other side of the crowd and ends up getting convinced to take a popper (i dont even know what the fuck they are but she was pretty messed up afterwards). Few minutes later, she's clearly fucked up and the other dude says to Jess and I, "hey i know of this really exclusive bar a few blocks away, my friend is bartending tonight, since this place is closed down do you guys wanna head there?" Jess agrees pretty fast cuz she wants to keep drinking and I'm fighting it hardcore, saying how Jess and I arent dressed for that place and some other BS excuses I can come up with. I watch as she and him walk over to his car and I come up with a last ditch effort to save my manhood from this fuckin vulture dude. I say, "hey we're going back to my place to smoke a bit, you should come." She steps away from the other dude, says goodbye and walks with me and John back to his car which we took to the bar. I'm confused as shit right now, it appeared that she was about to ditch me for some old dude who was just buying her drinks but then as soon as I asked her to come back with me, she came right away. Anyways we get back to Johns car, and I sit in the back seat thinking-well sorry John, but imma probably mess around with this chick in the back while you drive us home. She sits in the front seat next to John (and is really fucked up now by the way, sceamin and being all sorts of crazy). So i'm sittin in the back and somehow she ends up straddling the armrest to get into the backseat with me while simulaneuously reaching into John's pants to pull out his cock. I'm like what the fuck? So I pull her back into the backseat and start messing around, pants down on her going to town etc. she reaches up into the front seat and grabs John's arm and pulls in back into her pussy and so now im faced with John and I finger banging this girl while driving back. John keeps lookin at me in his rear view mirror but im in too much shock right now to say anything. She's moaning and screaming and cumming in the backseat and I'm just thinking to myself,we'll i might as well just jump out the fuckin window. I mean i know this girl is wild because of our bedroom time (slapping and hair pulling etc) but I didnt think she was this crazy. I'm gonna be honest, I usually play the nice guy card because thats how I am, a nice fuckin guy. True, it doesnt play out well at bars a lot because chicks look for assholes but I couldnt figure out what I should do at this point. I wasnt mad at John for doing what he was doing because it was pretty much at the point where we were all having fun being weird on the ride home. We get back to my place and she pulls off her clothes and hops in my bed, John and another friend "Kyle" are hanging out in my room, watchin this chick be naked and crazy and smoking with me. John leaves and its just me and Kyle hanging out, still smoking. Kyle is the dirtbag who showed me this subreddit, and constantly brags about its helpfulness getting him pussy. Kyle starts making moves on this girl who is still naked being crazy in MY bed so i pretty much tell Kyle to kindly get the fuck out. At this point, its late as shit so I just roll over and pass out. Hell if Im gonna fuck this chick after the crazy ass shit I've seen her do tonight. Next morning she wakes me up with kisses on the cheek and apologies for her behavior last night. We end up spending the whole day together drinking in a park then watching movies. She slept over again last night.

Seddit - what do?

Do I chalk up her wild behavior to being fucked up on poppers and tequila and continue to hang out with her? Or should this be a final straw type thing and I kick her to the curb? I do enjoy hanging out with her but that night was just ridiculous. I know I'm not the most alpha, top dog douchebag sedditor out there fuck, I'm a good guy who deserves a good chick.